Don't Worry About It

Harold’s a social person. Always has been, always will be. He loves people. That doesn’t change because he is ill and, short of divine intervention, may move on. Yet here’s the awkward part. What do you say to a person in that situation?

We’ve now had the chance to explore this question and here’s the short answer: Don’t worry about it. You can say anything you want.

Many conversations start with the phrase, “I just don’t know what to say,” and it’s true, we don’t; yet the very act of desiring to reach out speaks volumes. Often the last thing Harold and I do in the evening is to share the communications we’ve received during the day. Sometimes we laugh, sometimes we cry, but we always feel loved and uplifted

Think about your past interactions with Harold. Did you joke or plot some mischief? Did you discuss spiritual things? Did you try to beat him at racquetball or chase him down a basketball court? Did you work together on projects or organize some way to serve? Whatever your previous connection, share the memories. Harold cares about you and would love the opportunity to remember these precious times.

We have also heard that some who wish to communicate aren’t sure how to reach us. Phone calls are intimidating because you don’t know when it’s a good time. Though we always welcome your calls Harold may not be available to talk. Commenting on the blog doesn’t work for many and may not be the setting for the things you wish to share. Recognizing these challenges I have set up an email address where you can reach Harold anytime you want. I’ll make sure he gets your messages and when possible, he’ll reply.

You can reach us at westillchoosefaith@gmail.com